add winloop support and remove deprecated functionality from uvloop (#4996)

* add winloop support and remove deprecated functionality from uvloop

* summarize changes made in pull request #4996

* close after running with web.run_app

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* reformat

* add windows-latest and windows-11-arm to uvloop test

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